Oceans...
It never ceases to surprise me! The sheer magnitude of the collective wisdom that lies between us, has always left me pleasantly wonder at the maturity that I witness while rubbing the goosebumps on my right forearm.
There are a dozen random blogs that I follow. When I say follow, I mean I check them for updates religiously, and I read each and every comment that other bloggers make. And so very often beneath the parchment of a post, I have found the most profound phrases peppered in the comments section. Words that give you a new perspective to things that you have forever known.
I have seen people share the pain, and say words which have a healing touch of their own, while all I could do was to stay tongue-tied. I have witnessed amazingly varied perspectives on psyches and life, and I have seen paradigms expressed in ways indescribable. And yet I have seen a lot of agony, so much so, that sometimes I forget to exhale. I marvel at our capacity to hurt, not only others but ourselves. And hurt in ways that no matter what, its only ourselves who can redeem us. And I question, where did the wisdom go? What becomes to the words that seemingly salvage people from self destruction? How are they lost when it comes to the redemption of the self?
And then sinks in the fact, that we are standing on the shore of an ocean of life, watching someone drown. Sometimes that someone is them, but sometimes it is us.
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I take it as a road....life that is.... and no matter how much difficult the pervious stretch of road was and how well we managed to cross it....it doesnt give us the craftsmanship or skill to totally be a master in the next bad stretch ahead.....
capacity to hurt others...yes..i think we have got that so well in us...
Perhaps I'd written this somewhere that all us are kept alive by the bits and pieces of others (as well as us). Scribbling here is also enabling us in way to distill bitter truths and discover sparks of humanity that unites us. Interestingly, even I encounter in this blogosphere, certain characters so lovable – despite their many flaws – that they trail around me for a while, scarcely caring if they are wrestling with a life-threatening crisis or are writing about taking their dogs for a walk.
@Shooting Star: Right said, in his book Disgrace Coetzee also said about 'things getting harder' to the same effect.
@Aria: Yes i think you did. :) So what will you have today? A doggie walk, or a life-situation?
Life situation .. I keep walking my doggie but now I want to take someone for a ride ;) lol
@Aria: Can i climb in? :p
this is a little essay that i read with complete attention. well done!!!
@Mystic rose: So I was able to hold your attention, atleast for a few seconds?
Very true Aakash...some comments also touch my heart and I have seen the words give a completely different touch to the post. I think while knowingly hurting ourselves, sometimes wisdom takes a back seat and we just follow the momentum and even if we try to control ourselves, somewhere we fail!
I guess sometimes comments act like missing pieces in the jigsaw puzzle...sometimes answers can be found in them. Well-written:)
@Kalyan: Thanks for reading, and you said it right, more often than not it is the momentum thats driving us.
@d4u: Thankyou. :) So what answers you found today?
Its what Camus would call an "absurdist choice" - living, despite the knowledge that life is not worth living :)
Is Suicide actually so abominable? Does it not hold the promise of redemption? I wonder.
Perfidious: A permanent solution to a temporary problem, and life no matter how bad is still worth sticking it out. :)
" I marvel at our capacity to hurt, not only others but ourselves"
so true...
Vrinda: You are too young to be hurt, but then hurt doesnt check the age.
Whats your story?
Lots of pregnant questions... Sometimes I feel humans like to wallow in their own miseries. Often they have suggestions for others in similar situations but none for themselves. Sometimes I too am stunned by the profoundness of seemingly simple comments...
So how is life otherwise? I am doing good. Trying to settle in.
Hey I need help with PostIndia man. Not enough traffic. Please advertise and ask ur friends too ;)
wow beautiful post! U know how much I love the ocean anyways.
Life is a sea of time...a collection of waves of happiness n sadness...a stillness of bliss...a taste of salt that somehow quenches ur thirst to grow...
**Sometimes that someone is them, but sometimes it is us.
so true!
Keshi.
@Vibhanshu: Dada, i can put up the banner here and maybe write a post as well.
Mera khud ka traffic kuch khaas nahin hai, only a few people who are kind enough read regularly.
@Keshi: Here its also an ocean of sadness, and i just hope you never fall in love with that!
Yeah that would be a good idea, but I really need some help with some parts I am working on and I need inputs of people on that...
One story is on Benaras and the other is on the ugly face of india, like riots, infanticide etc..
Any suggestions?
Vibhanshu: Benaras! Hmm if i dig down hard in my memory maybe i could write something on that.
As for the ugly face, you will find writers one and dozen. I'll try and find some.
sadness comes n goes..just liek happiness.
hows u Aakash?
Keshi.
This article if we can name it so.. or post if u prefer.. reminds me of a story i once heard about a mother and her two sons on their way to the city and the mother to her surprise finds that her 2 young sons start ageing and become old as they move towards the city.. so old tht they can no longer walk..
perplexed when she calls for help.. a saint explains.. they are nothin but showing signs of carrying all the worries with them.. tell them stories and wise words.. and they will return back to normal..
i think it was a beautiful metaphor.. of how we can let the hurts and the thoughts drag us down and let the years pass by quickly..
and its just as easy.. to keep a few wise words with us.. keep the faith and redeem ourselves..
cheers!
@Keshi: I am fine Keshi. Thanks for asking. How are you? :)
@Anki: Lovely story! And yes, faith can redeem one. BTW, you didnt answer me? :)
Hey thanks dada. Read my post on Kashi, it might give u a starting point... I miss India so much :( All those travels and all those people...
:-) sheer brilliance Aakash! For the first time, I thought a piece betrayed you... I mean I could hear you and see you while reading this, and somehow a diff you came up... or so I thought.... aah I dont know how to put it... :-)
at hurting oneself, I somehow feel that we hurt ourselves only to redeem ourselves of the hidden hurt. For when we hurt ourselves, we pity that self, we love that self... and hence the magnitude of the hidden hurt reduces with that expression.
Loved the ocean analogy... :-)
Actually... I want to say it again... This piece was very well written. :-)
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